God, bless us this
day with a sense of wonder in our minds and in our hearts. Show us the power of your blessing of us and
our blessings of others. Show us how to
love. Amen
Here’s what I learned from
reading Fr. John O’Donohue: We don’t
know anything about the power of blessing others or the radical nature of God’s
blessing upon us. Nevertheless, if I
were to sneeze, I would instantly gather 40 or 50 blessings because saying
“Bless you” is just something we do and we do it without thinking. If we really understood the power to bless
and if we really meant it when we said “Gesundheit”, why, we’d be sneezing all
over the place just so we could gather blessings along the way.
You’ve
heard me quote from Fr. John O’Donohue before. He died unexpectedly at age 52 and wrote
several books about Celtic spirituality and did wonderful work on the nature
and necessity of blessing. He says: “What is a blessing?
A blessing is a circle of light drawn around a person to protect, heal and
strengthen. Life is a constant flow of emergence. The beauty of
blessing is its belief that it can affect what unfolds.” If
you think about it at all it will give you pause—imagine believing that we can
affect what unfolds in this constant flow of life. He then continues: “Our longing
for the eternal kindles our imagination to bless. Regardless of how we
configure (or think about) the eternal, the human heart continues to
dream of a state of wholeness, a place where everything comes together, where
loss will be made good, where blindness will transform into vision, where
damage will be made whole, where the clenched question will open in the house
of surprise, where the travails of a life’s journey will enjoy
a homecoming, to invoke a blessing is to call some of that wholeness
upon a person
now.”
In his work,
O’Donohue reminds us that Old Testament Jews believed that all blessings were
owned by God and, therefore, dispensed by God. The patriarchs such
as, Adam, Noah, and Moses were all blessed by God. For his part, Moses
passed on a parting blessing to the Twelve Tribes of Israel in
Deuteronomy. In the Old Testament, the idea of "blessing"
was also closely related to the question of inheritance, passing blessing
from parent to child. Jacob blessed Joseph in Gen. 48:15, and
Joseph's two sons. We must also remember that Old Testament Jews had a
very sophisticated understanding of the sacred. God was so sacred that
you dare not speak the name aloud. Places became sacred when God was
encountered there. Names were given to commemorate God’s
visitation. You may remember that Jacob names the place where he
encounters the sacred “Bethel”. This naming, the blessing of
sacred space is consistent with our need to speak the
blessing.
Earlier this week, I got to thinking about the story of Nicodemus from the perspective of blessing—seeing Jesus’ response to Nicodemus as the ultimate blessing. Nicodemus had come to Jesus at night. For the longest time, Nicodemus has gotten a bad rap for doing that. Many think that he did it because he was afraid of getting caught. He was, after all, a Pharisee and a member of the Sanhedrin, the high Jewish Court. But, if he suspected or even believed that Jesus was the promised Jewish Messiah, it is also possible that he went at night so as not to draw extra attention to Jesus which would have put him in immediate danger. Whatever the case, we see Nicodemus deep in conversation with Jesus. He has asked Jesus how one gains eternal life. Jesus tells him, cryptically, that a person must be “born again”. Nicodemus jumps to the wrong conclusion about what Jesus is saying. You can almost see him, after having been engrossed in the conversation, sitting back and saying. “What are you talking about? How can anyone who is already grown up go back into their mother’s womb to be born again? This talk makes no sense. What’s this ‘born-from-above’ talk?”
Earlier this week, I got to thinking about the story of Nicodemus from the perspective of blessing—seeing Jesus’ response to Nicodemus as the ultimate blessing. Nicodemus had come to Jesus at night. For the longest time, Nicodemus has gotten a bad rap for doing that. Many think that he did it because he was afraid of getting caught. He was, after all, a Pharisee and a member of the Sanhedrin, the high Jewish Court. But, if he suspected or even believed that Jesus was the promised Jewish Messiah, it is also possible that he went at night so as not to draw extra attention to Jesus which would have put him in immediate danger. Whatever the case, we see Nicodemus deep in conversation with Jesus. He has asked Jesus how one gains eternal life. Jesus tells him, cryptically, that a person must be “born again”. Nicodemus jumps to the wrong conclusion about what Jesus is saying. You can almost see him, after having been engrossed in the conversation, sitting back and saying. “What are you talking about? How can anyone who is already grown up go back into their mother’s womb to be born again? This talk makes no sense. What’s this ‘born-from-above’ talk?”
Jesus,
with his usual compassion says, “You’re not listening. Let me say it again.
Unless a person submits to this original creation—the
‘wind-hovering-over-the-water’ creation, the invisible moving the visible, a
baptism into a new life—it’s not possible to enter God’s kingdom. When you look
at a baby, it’s just that: a body you can look at and touch. But the person who
takes shape within is formed by something you can’t see and touch—the
Spirit—and becomes a living spirit.” As
the dawn begins to break, we see the light beginning to shine in Nicodemus’
heart as well.
Is
this—this availability of God’s Spirit—not the ultimate blessing given to us by
God and explained so beautifully by Jesus?
Most of us need a little more explanation than this, however. I found one of O’Donohue’s poems, simply
called “The Blessing”, that I think gives us a way to understand what happens
to us inside when we allow God’s Spirit to form us into a living spirit. O’Donohue would suggest that we are brought
to the point of wanting and longing for something more and this leads us to
welcome God’s Spirit. His poem, his
blessing upon us is this:
Blessed be the longing that brought you here and that
quickens
your soul with wonder.
May you have the courage to befriend your eternal
longing.
May you enjoy the critical and creative companionship
of the
question
“who am I?” and may it brighten your longing.
May a secret Providence guide your thought and shelter
your
feeling.
May your mind inhabit your life with the same sureness
with
which
your body belongs to the world.
May the sense of something absent enlarge your life.
May you succumb to the danger of growth.
May you live in the neighborhood of wonder.
May you belong to love with the wildness of Dance.
May you know that you are ever embraced in the kind
circle of
God.
Furthermore,
O’Donohue states this about blessings: “The Bible is full of
blessings. They are seen as a communication of life from God. Once
the blessing is spoken, it cannot be annulled or recalled.”
Can
we think of the impact on our lives if we begin to view God’s blessings as a
“communication of life from God?” If every time we meet and share the
good news of God’s radical love and acceptance of us, we bless each other and
ourselves, we begin to open up a floodgate of God’s gracious gifts that we best
be ready to accept and pass on. If every time we meet, we remember to
bless the God who created and first blessed us, we begin to live into a
place of constant communication of life from God and to God. As we mature
into a fuller understanding of the role of being blessed, accepting and living
into God’s richest blessings, and desiring to reach out into the lives of
others to bless them similarly, we will experience the grace of God to a depth,
height, and breadth formerly unknown to us.
We also need to bless each other because when you
bless another you make real O’Donohue’s belief that no life is alone or beyond
the reach of all others. When you offer
a blessing, you make a potentially life-altering connection with that person—a
connection that permeates all the fences we erect to keep others at a
distance. To offer that blessing and to
have it received, is to connect with another at the deepest level.
O’Donohue writes, ―a blessing is different from a
greeting, a hug, a salute, or an affirmation . . . blessing is from soul to
soul.” I think we hunger for
soul-to-soul connections. And we hunger
for them in everyday life—not just in church or in some special retreat or
conference. And so, we go about our
daily lives. How often do we stop
ourselves to think about the innate sacredness of another person—that same
person as the one who just bagged our groceries or cut our hair?
Think what might happened if we deliberately set out
to infuse our lives and theirs with more and more blessings. O’Donohue believed that “blessing” is a way
of life and a means of transforming a broken world—a “huge force field that
opens when intention focuses and directs itself toward transformation.”
I know that some of you have noticed that at some
point in the last year, I added “Namaste” to the “amen and amen” at the end of
my sermons. “Amen” feels like God’s blessing on us, but Namaste feels like our
blessing upon each other. Some churches
now use “Namaste” when passing “The Peace” or greeting each other in the
service. The Namaste, is performed
by slightly bowing and pressing hands together, palms touching and fingers
pointed upwards in front of the chest.
Commonly performed in India, “Namaste” is a respectful greeting and means
“The spirit in me respects the spirit in you,” or “the divinity in me bows to
the divinity in you.” The gesture first appeared 4000 years ago on clay seals
of the Indus Valley Civilization. The Namaste is a reverential
salutation that could stand a bit of use in and out of church in our own
country. I’m not suggesting that Open
Circle take up the Namaste as an official greeting, but I would never be
offended if you offered it to me and I to you.
And, so, in whatever form you use, I invite all of us
to exercise our blessing ability just a bit more. As O’Donohue says, “May we all receive
blessing upon blessing. And may we realize our power to bless, heal, and renew
one another.” Amen and amen. Namaste.
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